Really?

More and more it has been brought to my attention that I am somewhat hard hearted when it comes to relationships. I don't really think of it as being that way. I'd say I'm a realist. When something is over, its over. Just because I don't spend my time eating a pint of Hagen Daz and listening to John Mayer cd's doesn't mean I'm hard hearted. It's just that I know that life goes on. And what good comes from dwelling? Society already thinks of women as these fragile creatures, who are always writing in their journals about some man who did them wrong. The best revenge is the revenge that is served up cold. How much better it is than for an ex to see you happy, healthy, going on with your life and totally forgetting about him? That's not hard hearted. That's practical. And that's how I live my life. With both feet on the ground whether I'm walking towards you or walking away from you. Life always goes on.